Women candidates and ‘likability’ — Point-Counterpoint


By InsideSources.com - Guest Columnists




Point: Likability always matters

By Carrie Lukas

Several prominent women are seeking the Democratic Party’s nomination for president. Some worry these female candidates will face an unfair “likability” standard, which they see as a new twist on plain old sexism.

Yet all candidates — men and women alike — have to worry about coming across as likable. There’s nothing sexist about it.

The like-ability issue is top-of-mind since many blame Hillary Clinton’s loss on a like-ability deficit, and worry that history might repeat itself next year. For example, Politico posed this question after Senator Elizabeth Warren announced her candidacy: “How does Warren avoid a Clinton redux — written off as too unlikable before her campaign gets off the ground?”

Women’s Media Center worried about the treatment of the Democratic women seeking the nomination: “Even before the media gave these women’s political visions a chance, it has largely narrowed in on evaluating whether these women possess a single quality — one that they seem to care about only when it comes to female candidates: their likability.”

But it isn’t just female candidates who are judged on their ability to appeal to and connect with voters. This has been a central issue in all modern elections. In 2008, a Newsweek article titled “The Likability Factor” detailed how future president Barack Obama clobbered Senator John McCain, not on the substance of the presidential debate but on being more likable — which has been critical since the advent of television:

In 1984, Ronald Reagan struck voters as about 20 percent more likable than Walter Mondale. George H.W. Bush defeated Michael Dukakis largely because he “triumphed in the congeniality competition” — and later lost to Bill Clinton largely because he didn’t. After the Oct. 17, 2000, debate, voters rated George W. Bush the more likable candidate, 60 percent to 30 percent; four years later, Dubya whipped John Kerry 52 percent to 41 percent in the same department. In other words, the candidate who won the debates may not have won the subsequent election — but the candidate who came off as most congenial almost always did.

Likability isn’t a sexist criteria. It’s a criteria that people consider in most situations. We want political leaders — and media personalities, teachers, salespeople and celebrities — who we can relate to and enjoy seeing as they become part of the backdrop to our lives. There is nothing new or nefarious about this.

The media’s newfound concern about likability seems driven by their desire to see whoever wins the Democratic nomination to resoundingly beat President Trump. If they can’t beat Trump on policy and results, they’ll beat him on likability.

The media will work overtime to make these Democratic women as likable as possible. From women’s magazines to daytime television to news reporters — the media will routinely offer soft coverage that makes them seem as relatable, aspirational and likable as possible. You’ll see pictures of these women in “authentic-looking” family settings, caring for the sick, holding babies, laughing with happy crowds at wholesome gatherings, and lots of really fun, cool activities to try to meld their images with what we associate with people who are kind, compassionate and fun-loving.

For those with likability issues, the media will launch into damage control mode. They will attempt to blunt criticism that Warren is too cold and calculating, or that Senator Amy Klobuchar is phony and cruel to staff. If that doesn’t work, the backup plan is to de-legitimize the concept of likability for female Democrats as sexism.

With President Trump they do the opposite. Not only will they make him look as boorish and off-putting as possible, but they will push the idea that these are legitimate reasons to oppose him. When his approval ratings are low they’ll say he has likability issues and won’t win re-election. When his approval ratings improve, they won’t report it or will dismiss it as for all the wrong reasons. They’ll suggest that if you do like him or will vote for him, there’s something wrong with you. You’re unlikable.

Many voters likely will see through this media manipulation. Of course, voters will prioritize evaluating the agendas offered by the candidates, to determine who has a better plan for creating a stronger country with better opportunity for all. But they will also consider candidates’ personal attributes, including who they like more.

There’s nothing wrong — or sexist — about that.

Counterpoint: Stop it with the sexist ‘likability’ test

By Juanita Tolliver

Standing in her kitchen, describing how her family struggled to make ends meet after her dad got sick and her mother worked a minimum wage job, she reinforced her commitment to fighting for vulnerable families and made a historic announcement: “…Today I’m launching an exploratory committee for president.”

And cue the media response.

Mere hours after Elizabeth Warren kicked off the 2020 presidential election cycle on New Year’s Eve with her announcement video, a flurry of media headlines danced across Twitter proposing that pesky, sexist question that’s long haunted girls and women acting with agency and gaining success: “… But is she likable?”

Instead of focusing on the senator’s accomplishments, policy ideas and vision for our nation, news outlets like Politico, The Daily Beast and many others pounced at the opportunity to evaluate Warren’s likability. They proceeded to describe her as “a combination of some of the horrible math teachers I endured in middle school, and a friend’s overly emotional mom …” and commented that “she’s already falling in the polls, and — perhaps most stinging — shares too many of the attributes that sank Hillary Clinton.”

Patriarchy strikes again.

I love that song, don’t you? You know the one where the patriarchy rears its head and attempts to force women into the submissive position of maintaining and advancing its principles with a smile on their faces?

Growing up in Tennessee, adults in my community stressed that it was more important to be liked than to be right or to fight and be heard; that little girls don’t get dirty or scrape their knees playing sports. By the time I was 12 years old, I’d lost count of all the “bless your hearts” I heard while fighting for leadership positions on student council and on sports teams, and challenging my middle school teachers’ differing expectations for girls and boys. It’s a travesty that these antiquated notions remain the foundation of the political fodder greasing the doldrums of the news cycle and serving as, essentially, the narrative that never died.

But enough is enough, because today, women are pushing to the front at every level of elected office and public service. Women led the blue wave in 2018 that resulted in Democrats reclaiming the House of Representatives, and 102 women — a record number — currently serve in the 116th Congress. More than 2,117 women serve in state legislatures across the nation, and, for example, women dominate the Nevada state legislature. These historic stats and record-breaking numbers more than affirm that being “likable” is irrelevant to serving our nation. And they scream that being likable has absolutely nothing to do with running for president.

But all is not lost. We have a chance to rectify the situation and chisel a few morsels off of the patriarchal structure and effectively reverse course. Thus, here’s my challenge to the media — NEVER use the word “likable” again for any candidate. There shouldn’t be any discussion of how “warm” a candidate is, or if a candidate is someone you’d like to get a beer with. It all has to stop.

Instead, focus your content on dissecting candidates’ policy ideas. Focus on each candidate’s actions and merit. Focus on their commitment to solving the intractable challenges of our time — voting rights, climate change, gun violence, poverty and economic inequality. Focus on the substance, and let’s see which candidate rises to the top of the 2020 Democratic primary.

It is time to collectively end this sexist double standard that creates yet another hurdle for women as they work to break through the largest glass ceiling and achieve the presidency of the United States of America. Allow for their records to speak for themselves, and evaluate their policy ideas and vision for our nation.

It is time to evolve and dismiss this notion as a people because it’s in our best interest. We need the most capable, most effective candidate to emerge no matter how much she or he is “liked.”



By InsideSources.com

Guest Columnists

Carrie Lukas is president of Independent Women’s Forum. Juanita Tolliver is the campaign director for the Center for American Progress Action Fund. They wrote this for InsideSources.com.

Carrie Lukas is president of Independent Women’s Forum. Juanita Tolliver is the campaign director for the Center for American Progress Action Fund. They wrote this for InsideSources.com.